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Ben Brearley's avatar

Great post Ben. You seem to have much more clarity than about 90% of the population I'd say!

I wanted to be a Zoologist, so I went to uni and studied it. Found out I didn't really like it and wasn't good at it. Ended up doing a Biochem degree which I was also mediocre at.

Switched to computer science and loved it, starting my proper working life as a programmer. But over time, this morphed into Business Analysis, project and program management, consulting and then management roles.

Started writing about leadership 8 years ago and voila, now I'm a leadership coach and trainer and I'm still working out exactly what I want to do next. 😀

Your rugby career had a very clear goal. Win games, build your skills, make the Brumbies, make the Wallabies, win trophies etc.

Now you have switched to corporate Ben and everything becomes murky. There are a million paths to choose. But you have done so much work already thinking about it, you pretty much have your North Star now, you just need to follow it - and that could mean lots of different things.

So keep it up.

What's that saying? "The journey is the destination"

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Sam Wilson's avatar

Thanks for the shout out, mate. Loving the honesty.

I believe strongly that when we prioritise looking after ourselves, our selves will look after us (and all the other shit).

I like what you said about content. I realised I was trying too hard, to learn too much. Every where I drove I was listening to a podcast or book, same goes for running. Whilst it's still important to me to try to keep learning, I think my brain can only ingest so much and when i try to learn too much at one time it gets overwhelmed and I end up not taking as much from a piece of content as I would have if I'd just given my brain a bit of a rest. I haven't found the balance yet, but I have found that running without headphones has been great. Time to give my brain some space to sort a few things out instead of trying to squeeze more shit into an already overfull jar.

You're drive to help others purely because it's the right thing to do is inspiring. If that remains the focus, I'm sure success and more importantly contentment.

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